A wife wrote from her own experience
Marriage is considered a mandatory life event which has to take place in every human society. I am here because my father married my mother. Real life began after marraige. And the success of a person – be it the woman or the man , understanding between the two is the key to success .
When we talk about understanding each other its about having limitation to the expectation from among one another. Expecting things that a husband can’t afford will not only make the wife unhappy but it all also upset the husband on why he can’t satisfy her only beloved wife. Same is the condition with the husband. Expecting something from his wife without understanding the level of her mental status will be the beginning of bitter relationships.
A Lady teacher Sunita in a website wrote what her husband want from her.
This write up is her own personnel findings after diagnosting the attitude, mentality of here husband.
As per her writing she apologies for torturing her husband for many days as she failed to understand her husband Rajendra.Sunita is a educated house wife who is a mother of two daughter and stay a joint family with her mother-in-law.
As per her writing her husband want her to be a Good home cooked, simple food served hot, not reheated, taken out from the fridge. Besides, he wanted her to talk less and stopped talking, discussing about the bad image of others.
Sunita said her husband also did not like her recollecting old ‘antique’ problems of the past in the new arguments.
What he always wanted from her is to give some quality time for him also besides children.
Take care of things and happenings in the house as he gets too tired with his stress filled office work.
The only thing he expected from her is to maintain good relationships with his mother- in- laws and relatives.
One more thing he like in me is to establish good friendship with like minded people.
“He is liberal and have no objection to what I want but he wanted my leisure time with friend be spent on my own by talking good things which would give wisdom to our daughter” , Sunita wrote
He wanted me to let him rest on weekends to be energetic for work throughout the week.
He wanted me not to have too much worry about financial problem as he said he is doing what he can.
“Instead of telling him to stop smoking and drinking I should request him to keep it to a bare minimum. (difficult but a little acting helps)”, She added.
He doesn’t want me to compare him with my smart dad and my smart Brother –in-Law.
My behavior in the society should make him feel proud of me, not run away from facing others, he never said but I know this was what he always expected from me.