By: Ashinikumar Mutum
It’s natural that woman gets angry when she found out her husband having elicit relationship with another woman. The same is with the man too. And the impact will be on their wards.
Unlike in western countries, or other mainland Indian subcontinent, Manipur’s way of life is completely different. There is freedom to both man and woman, but certain restrictions embolden to preserve the tradition and culture of the Manipuri people particularly among the Meitei community women are seen binding to follow certain rituals. The culture of housewife getting up early before the sunrise, completing the left over household choir and after taking a morning bath whether it may be in deep freezing winter cold or in hot exhausted summer heat, housewife are conventionally assigned the responsibility of performing the rituals in morning as every Manipuri family did. Our society being a Patriarchal, men are usually left aside from doing household choirs.
But things have change, as the world has become a Global village many young generation people now think the other way. The advancement in internet technology and cell phone competition between various companies, the world is now a family. The lifestyles in western developed nations are the talk of the young generation forgetting that we are still way to go to reach their stage of development. It is not only about the young generation but also to those aged people who witness all these technology developing in front of their eyes. Except for the love and care for the love ones, culture of lifestyle is completely different from one nation to another nation, from one community to another community. And the unfortunate part is that almost all people wanted the kind of lifestyle that the developed countries practice. The way of expression through private conversation in social networking web site is sometime not fit for some people and some even finds it intrusion to their private life. It’s okay to blame such attitude if the identity of the person is well mention and uploaded picture of their own.
Well, coming to the point, it is pertinent to think on why man spend more time in social networking site to get touch with people whom they never meet. As for the young school or college children its all right using it. But for those working man or woman who were already married, why they spend more time to this virtual world need to be carefully studied.
There was a time when television was just a dream for people of this world. Nobody had ever thought that there will be two or more television sets in a house with uncountable number of channels. That time mobile cell phone was just a science fiction. No person of that time had every though that people will be able to access to any person across the globe from anywhere they stand.
When television was just a dreamt the relation between wife & husband and their children was to close as they have times to sit together at least for few times after work together. Now a day when television is installed at every room with numerous channels the family members now didn’t sit together as they chose programme of their choice at different room.
Well the dream about developed countries lifestyle is also another real problem for women. Women always like to be rich, live a king size life and their admiration often landed in trouble due to difference of opinions with their husband. That is the time that some husband went out to forget things that is happening in the family while other who do not want stay with their computer to relax by chatting or engaging in their mobile hand set or computers.
As conversation through social networking site provided one to express things that cannot be talk directly in real life people got extreme freedom. That is why naturally words use to communicate may not be appreciated by their near and dear one. But one thing need understanding is that the kind of conversation in social networking site is just to get relieve and stay away from the kind of unbearable desires that their bitter half demanded. This is the part that every wife or near and dear one need to understand.