The formation of the child’s mind

By – Harkirat Kaur
The Heart of small children is very tender. The minds of little children are as tender and lovely as flowers. Childhood is a stage in which the child’s psyche is not yet fully strengthened, his consciousness is still developing and then he will develop. Children are more capable of absorbing any habit than a developed human being. His urge to use things, to be prevented from doing the same thing … his curiosity to do the same thing is many times more intense.
For parents, their children’s childhood is the biggest responsibility. The home environment, the behavior of the family members, the interests of the parents, the actions of the parents are very important. We all know that at this stage children understand the meaning of things less but always try to learn them. Childhood habits play a huge role in shaping a person’s personality. At this stage family members should take care of many things, such as never fighting in front of the children, never using bad language, making the children listen to Gurbani. The home should be run smoothly in the family, everything should be done in a planned way so that the child’s mind can be developed in the same way. I have seen a lot of parents arguing in front of their children without any thought then when no demand or need of the child is met then the child’s brain behaves exactly like he saw his family members. Happens. Many homes have a habit of swearing, which has a very negative effect on the child’s personality.
In infancy the child takes the actions around him very seriously. Sometimes children become disobedient due to lack of proper guidance and attention. In such cases parents should use aesthetics to deal with their children, never scold their children more than necessary, by doing so many weak hearted children instill in their parents such fear that they will be open with their parents for life. Don’t get it and are always hesitant about it.
Parents must read Gurbani, books in front of the children so that the mindset of the children develops in such a way that they start reading books. Parents should use mobile at least in front of their children. Keep their mind focused on Gurbani, books and nature.
Here are some ways in which having a child can help you create a better mental image. Childhood plays a big role in how a child behaves when he or she grows up. The behavior of family members comes to the forefront in shaping the minds of children because children want to know more about what we do than what we say. Children need a lot of parental support to shape their minds.