Why women are the focus of abuse?

Written By: / Articles / Monday, 21 December 2020 16:57

Whenever an argument turns into an argument, a barrage of insults begins.  Even if this argument or quarrel is taking place between two men, the insults are based on women.  Overall, women are the center of attention.

 ”In today’s environment there are many triggers for anger and abuse such as resentment with the government, trouble getting around, jobs, relationships. Irritability and resentment among the people is such that the abuse naturally comes out of the mouths of the people.”
 ”So our purpose in bringing up the abusive project is to bring a little awareness to the abusive language that people are using to vent their anger.  Instead of using the cheeks that are given, use cheeks that do not offend the person in front of you and do your job. “
 ”Our aim is to create a glossary of insults that are not anti-woman, not discriminatory for race or community, not intended to be derogatory or demeaning.”
 We are not stopping people from cursing.  We are replacing them with words that you can say and have fun with.
 ”To start this project, we first created a Google form and asked our friends, relatives and people to write in this form the insults they like, but these insults are targeted at women, race or community.”  Should not be. “
 ”We found about 800 words, 40 per cent of which were based on racial or gender discrimination, anti-women but about 50 words or swear words that could be called clean or tidy.”
 After examining, testing and understanding the meaning of the words, he started posting them on social media
 According to him, the reaction of the people was good but many said that they did not feel like uttering such clean swear words.
 We put memes of such words on social platforms like Instagram and Facebook so that people can see them.
 ”We want to change the way people think, by changing the wording of the swear words. Although the process will be very slow, we know that it is not necessary to make drastic changes again and again.”
 ”Some changes can be fun and that’s what we’re trying to do. As we find some words funny or funny, we put them on social media so that people’s habits can change as they enjoy.”
 She wants to make a collection of swear words in the form of a book in the future. But where did the subculture of swearing and the tendency to look down on women come from?
 It is difficult to say when the abuse started.  But she believes that only after the development of socialism will there be an understanding of good and bad and swearing will also start because swearing is a way to express anger.
 Swearing in folk songs
 However, swear words are used in folk songs.  There the relative is given to the bridegroom’s aunt to insult, ridicule and promote harmony but there is no need to look down on anyone but in a way the abuse is used to enhance social and family harmony.
 Sweets are given after marriage, which has a tradition of swearing.
 ”Folklore is also very old there. People used to quarrel and swear. But when swearing is done in anger, it has a different effect.”
But since 1000 years, when people from outside started coming and coming and going, the cheeks must have developed.
But why are women’s names being added to this subculture of swearing?
In response, she says, “Women and men were equal in the Vedic period. But then the importance of women began to wane and the supremacy of men began to increase and the responsibility of protecting women began to fall on them.”
“Gradually women came into the realm where they became a source of pride for men. It was also observed that kings would put their daughters on thrones so that they would fall and die.”
“There will be no daughter left, no one will reach out to anyone and no one will curse their daughter. There it was also observed that if someone was defeated in the war, he would give it to his daughters and at the same time become the root of the curse.  Gone. “
According to him, the protection of women was a big issue and women became the property of men and that property began to be abused.
By using these curses, men appease their arrogance and demean others.  This is how the custom began to take shape, and with the advent of modern times, this custom began to grow.
Women were popular in tribal society but then women came to be seen as a symbol of respect.
If honor is to be preserved then it must be kept within the threshold.  Women began to be considered weak in society.
You want to look down, you want to harass, then start cursing the women of their house, mother, sister or daughter and they become the target of cursing.
Because if a person is sexually assaulted to humiliate a person, such as a mother, sister or daughter, it will be a big attack.
Women are second to none
Elaborating on this, Shanti Jain says that it is a matter of women’s power but women are still second class.
Educated women are also suffering.  If you want to insult someone, you insult the woman of his house.  He is utterly humiliated and he satisfies the ego of men.
If we have to take revenge from a man, then we will take the woman, the woman becomes a means of humiliation.
There used to be a lot in the villages. Earlier it was generally observed that these insults were uttered only by the people living at the lower strata of the society but now the common educated people have also started uttering these insults.
In the past, people cared about the family.  Grandparents did not use such words in front of their fathers or elders.
It was feared that no one would hear her speaking but now that social censorship is coming to an end.
On social media platforms, people openly swear at each other, where those swear words are also liked.
It is adapted in our society and no one sees any evil in it and you are living in the same mindset.
For example in Pali there is the word Budhu.  In this word you will see that there is a thin line in the sense of humor and cheeks.  Here you put your point and teased and criticized or insulted the person in front of you but later the insults became violent.
If you look closely, there is no mention of a man for a man as the reference to a woman is given in the cheeks and this is not the case now. There is no such mention in history.
Such words are used for the lowest of the classifieds in society.
There are idioms in folklore where derogatory remarks have been made on the basis of women, particular caste or color.
There are words like Vaishya, Ganika, Sati for women but words with the same meaning are not found for men.
Society has created a lot of women through the scriptures and when people go into literature, it will come out in a bad way.

About the Author

Vijay Garg

Vijay Garg

Vijay Garg is a regular contributor of Imphal Times, mostly related with Education. Vijay is a resident of Street Kour Chand MHR Malout-152107 Distt Sri Muktsar sahib Punjab. Vijay Garg, Ex.PES-1 is a retired Principal from Government Girls Sen Sec school Mandi Harji Ram Malout -152106 Punjab. He is also the author of Quantitative Aptitude, NTSE , NMMS, Mathematics of XII, ICSE numerical physics and chemistry many more books.

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