Think It Differenty

/ Guest Column / Saturday, 10 April 2021 17:55

By: Themneivah Sitlhou
“If you look the right way you can see the whole world is a  garden”, Frances Hodgson Burnet. Human perspective is a view or outlook of how things are. It is how we react to everything happening in life. In psychological terms it is an approach that involves assumption on human behaviour and their function. The approach itself is optimistic and focus on our capacity to overcome hardships.Life is all about choice which we act according to our conscience. It is our conscience which let us perceive things differently. This is when it comes to pessimist and optimist. An optimistic person looks things with good signs while pessimist looks everything as bad omen. A positive person remain calm and positive even in times of storms. Being positive itself is the fundamental step of solving problems. There is things which is worth fighting while there are also things which donot. Life itself is enough of suffering so we should be selective in dealing life and we should not put ourselves into more puzzle. For that we should have good sense of perceiving things in our life.
We are social animals which cannot stay isolated. We need stable relationship with people around us to have normal life. Some comes and some goes so failure in one relationship donot necessarily mean your life is a mess. There are people whom we cried with, share our burden, laugh with and trust with our life. This doesn’t exactly point to single person. They have their own role to play in relationship. So you shouldn’t discriminate anyone just because they don’t meet our expectation but you should be the one selective in choosing the role carefully and go on with the flow. Donot be only one sighted person. 
What can be the greatest grief a person can bear in life?! I could think of loss of life which every family face. It took us so much time to overcome the trauma. We felt hopeless and sometime we donot have the will to live. There is  other side of the truth to uncover. Actually there is a way. Feelings and emotions cannot be forced. You probably tried so hard to forget every memory. Don’t hit yourself so hard. Don’t act normal when you are not. It’s totally okay to have break. Instead of trying to get rid of every trace why don’t you try cherishing them! When you learn to do it you will feel at ease when you think of it than sobber. If you think that they were the one whom you can only reliant on, why don’t you learn from their hard-work and learn to live on your own. Only then,they can rest in peace. If you grief of repentance and think that you don’t do enough for them, why don’t you live their dream and fulfill them!?.  Our dear departure taught us that none will stay with us all the time so we should learn to adjust in every situation. When we learn to see things differently our life would become more purposeful and cherish every moment we have while value the past and hope the best for future. 
Bad happenings will not become a sole reason to break us down as long as we don’t quit. Sometimes we missed an opportunity in life which might be our greatest mistake in life. We felt anxious and hopeless. We felt like it is the end. Remember there is always a new day after a gloomy night. Start over and over again. Winner makes no excuse. May be it happens for a good reason for you to set fully prepare for the next opportunity better  than before. 
We are never enough in human life. There are things to blame on situation while the others our flaws. There are things which are amendable and which is not. As long as it is changeable we should never give up. Some will mock you for your carelessness, some will mock you for your ego, others will criticize you for your dress code and some will make fun of you for your scores in school. It is our nature to get furious when we are being pointed. We can distinguish clearly who care for us and who donot care at all at our worse . Haters will talk behind your back of your flaws while there are people who encourage us and teach us . We think that people hate us and we felt secluded be it in schools and workplace. Now let us think in a more positive view. If they mock you of being careless, poor, ego, dress code etc. It means they want you to be careful, rich, end your ego, dress better etc. Respectively. There is no room for hatred. They are just some very important person who let you know of your weakness and ask you to transform into better person. Only good things will start happening in your life when you distance yourself from negativity. 
Why do we study and why our parents let us study? Some of us study or our parents let us study so that we won’t become a layman, farmers, etc. But a true educated student study so that they can help them in future. We know how exactly our society function. Most of our politicians are corrupted which leave a very bad impression of politics to public. Sometimes politics itself is a taboo. For this, many students donot have any interest to become a public leader. We may not be interested in politics but politics is interested in us. We can’t escape it as long as we are living in society. Therefore we should change our perspective and become a well educated man so that we change the outlooks of our politics when we become one. A well educated man is an upright man who has manner and not only learn knowledge but value life, truth, society and human rights. We will be blessed to have one as our leaders than a loaded politicians who enters politics with money power and man power. Our best hope for our future.
There are very important points a person to observe them in life. Resentment or hatred do not do you any good. They are torturing you. Remember winner donot hate or fight. Instead they show the result. Be humble in every situation be it in gracious time or hard time. Why do I say so? A humble man is a greatest man. Being humble doesn’t make you look small. It is a way of defining how great thou are! By being humble you earn respect but by being arrogant you earn fear. Learn to enjoy every small things in a great way in life. When you had a bad day, start counting your blessings. We often forget but our life itself is worth celebrating everyday. “Life is full of beauty.Notice it” says Ashley Smith.

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